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Flexting, Part 3: Late, late night

On Thursday,  The Buddy wanted to have drinks.  I had a horrible day at work, so I  jumped on it.  The Brainiac and I were texting back and forth most of the night (and Buddy kept asking me who my “boyfriend” … Continue reading

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Flexting, Part 2: Drunken flexting

Last weekend I was out with The Buddy and his friend, B, for happy hour.  Here’s the transcript of my texting with The Brainiac.   If they ever make a phone with a breathalizer, I’m totally buying it!! LBF: What’s … Continue reading

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Flexting

I recently learned a new term:  Flexting: flirting via text message. Since most (but, thankfully not all) of my communication with The Brainiac is via text, I guess I’m an expert flexter.   Here’s a convo. that happened right after the … Continue reading

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On again…

Okay, I should really learn to eat my words… and keep my mouth shut.  As soon as I had given up on The Brainiac, he called me.  Ok, well, technically, he didn’t call me.  He texted during the day and … Continue reading

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Let me count the ways…

A partial list of the reasons I heart The Brainiac: He’s unabashedly dorky He wears his heart on his sleeve He’s unbelievably cheesy, in a cute way He gives me compliments He bought me a meaningful, but not sentimental gift … Continue reading

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Exceeding Expectations

The date with The Brainiac turned into a three day affair. It was wonderful. It was magical. It was perfect. Now, that’s not a word I use a lot, but there’s no better way to describe it.  We had a great time. … Continue reading

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Managing Expectations

Why do I always do this to myself?   Any time it starts to look like maybe possibly there might be something going on with a guy, I freak out.  I try to act all cool like I don’t care, when … Continue reading

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It’s a date!?!

The Brianiac texted last night.  Wanted to know if I was definitely coming this weekend so he could make sure he didn’t have to work. Hells yeah!  I told him I’d be there for sure on Saturday, but might come … Continue reading

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Friends without benefits

I love hanging out with guys–even guys I’m not fucking. Last night I made plans to go to happy hour with my girlfriends. I had been planning it for a while and I was looking forward to it.  Then, at … Continue reading

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Text Tease

My communications with The Brainiac are kinda weird.  We mostly text.  I think I’ve talked to him on the phone maybe twice.  I don’t even have his email (okay…that’s not true. I actually have it b/c it was on some … Continue reading

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